Whose morality? Yours! What morality? The one you forgot at the door when you decided it was OK to be different, to be tolerant, to observe choice, to condemn war...
Less than a week ago, I wrote a rather heated piece about religious choice and how it can affect one's perception about the world. The piece was from my perspective and it should be inferred that being my perspective doesn't necessarily make it right. It's an opinion based on observation. Nothing is so limiting as to suggest your idea is finite or closed to scrutiny. Without scrutiny, there would be no debate and without debate, there would be no growth.
And with that said, consider this somewhat of a sequel to "Fearfully Dogmatic."
There are two questions I need to answer based on the last piece: 1. What makes my truth more so than Barry, the subject? It's an excellent question and without beating this one to death, I would merely suggest that truth is not absolute, it is an accumulation of learning. If my theory is correct, then we may never completely understand or know the truth while we continue to strive for it. It really is too complex in its scope and to the person who stops at a place in the road where it is most comfortable; they have limited their ability to seek truth and understand meaning. (my interpretation of truth in faith)
As for the MTV/CNN generation and choices: If there are people out there that are choosing to be gay based on what celebrities are doing - it's still their life and their choice! Anyone that thinks a person would willingly put themselves out there like that just because the perception to the outside world is one of it being suddenly popular or acceptable is quite frankly, in my estimation, delusional. Kids are still being bullied mercilessly for their "lifestyle" choices and if there really was any doubt in their minds about their sexual preferences - does any sane person think they would subject themselves to such torture? Really?
That's the problem. We're dealing with perception.
So let's talk about perception from the point of say, myself? I'm a good candidate as that I am spiritual in nature yet wholly and completely non trusting or accepting of organized religion. I especially resent these writings (bibles) that one needs to accept as accurate and unadulterated in their nature. We'll discount that the hundred or so factions of Christianity have all re-written the pages in order to adapt it to a moral compass that met with their distinction. Moses, Joseph Smith and Muhammad were all prophets who solely communicated with god and presented their findings. There was never irrefutable proof that they actually met with god - there was merely their assertion. Just imagine for a moment that a stranger walked up to you in the street today and told you god came to him in a dream...
My assertion is that religion is bunk. While I acknowledge there must be a higher power, a higher spiritual purpose, I reserve the right to perceive religion as nothing more than a tool to bully, intimidate and to ultimately bring misery, war and strife upon mankind. As harsh as that may sound, there is also a part of me that sees the good work done with churches and organizations around the world in regards to charity and giving people who are lost - purpose.
Now - for those of you who aren't offended and are willing to at least hear my point of view - I would like to address the reasons as to why I think religion does more bad than it does good. Again, I would remind everyone reading that this is "my" perception based on "my" accumulated learning in the areas of religion, politics and the world today.
What makes a person happy? Money? Sex? Faith? Accomplishment? Charity? Almost exclusively, 9 out of 10 people will say money. The reason is obvious. No matter what your background or belief - there is a common perception that with lots of money you can have everything else on that list. There's a certain irony however, considering statistics show that 80% of people in North America are Christian. Based on that statistic alone - 9 out of 10 people should instantly state faith as the thing that makes them happy. But they don't. I'm not going to get into conjecture about why a person thinks that money will help them have more faith and ultimately bring more happiness but it needs to be stated that perception by most is that money will generally fix everything.
So what about the 20% who don't have faith, like myself? I'm generally pretty happy. I don't care too much about money and my drive comes for accomplishment and the adventure. I love charity and that does make me happy because I feel like I can make a difference...maybe that's selfish but personal happiness requires a level of selfishness or, we'd all be miserable. Sex? Love it - guilt free. Definitely don't need money for that. Accomplishment? Well, if I can't accomplish my goals without winning the lottery, then I'm guessing I've set unrealistic goals.
There have been studies done on happiness vs faith from both sides and not surprisingly - with two completely different points of view. I'll give you a basic rundown and you can choose to believe or do the research yourself...
Sweden, Denmark, Norway and Estonia have the dubious distinction of being the least Christian with Estonia coming in at a whopping 14% who believe in organised religion. You would assume with all the godlessness, that they would have the most turmoil, most crime, most anarchy. Nope, not even close.
What really surprised me in my research, in relation to money, faith and happiness and this is according to the Happy Planet Index - The United States ranks 150th in the world in relation to happy, content citizens. Canada fares slightly better at 111. Two of the wealthier per capital and most religious nations in the world. It's not definitive however as it's really not as black and white as those stats would suggest. It is telling though.
Because based on the ideologies of the Christian right in North America, god is the answer to everything...even if money would make god go down just a little easier. Sorry, that was a cheap shot.
Here's the thing that scares me: In North America we really hold the ideals of separation of church and state and consider this a critical issue in relation to democracy. It's as American as democracy and apple pie. The reality however is quite different. And, the psyche of a nation embroiled in the traditions of his or her Christianity clearly controls our government and the way we are governed.
I could use Canadian references for my argument but they're not nearly as colorful as what the United States offers me in regards to material. This is where I'll wrap up my little blog today and leave some of you feeling a little animosity towards me...
In the Republican race to find a leader and strong opponent to run against Obama, we have seen the candidates whittled down to just 3. All of them with strong religious convictions.
Mitt Romney is an ardent Mormon and a millionaire. He is against gay marriage, does not think women have the right to choose and supports using military force. He has openly criticized Obama's administration for pulling back some of its military efforts. On a side note, his considerable wealth comes from ownership in the Marriot chain of hotels - a company that has profited quite comfortably off the sale of pornography as part of their service, something they continue to offer and something he's fully aware of.
Rick Santorum wants war with Iran. He thinks Obama has been too soft and if he gets elected, Iran will comply or he will drop bombs on them. His policy on same sex marriage? He once likened homosexuality and permitting that and same sex marriage as akin to pedophilia or beastiality. His views on protection of privacy are even more startling as he feels that contraceptives should be banned as this promotes abhorrent sexual misconduct in the bedroom. His latest gem was just yesterday on CNN when he suggested that women are too emotional and don't belong on the front lines with men.
Ron Paul is my favorite of them all but least likely to win. He has a lot of the other questionable, religious ideologies in regards to pro choice and gay marriage but where he differs is not wanting America to engage in any more war. He wants dialogue and an end to the killing. He believes that Muslim people are not inherently evil and he promotes tolerance more than just about any other leader in American history. Yes, there is some bias for the man...but again, he doesn't represent all of the ideals of the 80% or the Christian right because these days - being Christian means being right.
Finally, as a Canadian, I should bring Mr. Harper into the mix just to round this whole religious ideology and how it fuels and ultimately decides our political structure in North America.
Stephen Harper is probably one of the scariest leaders in a democratic nation in a century. He controls the media and anyone that speaks out against him. There are no open press junkets and only reporters he chooses to acknowledge can ask him questions at a press conference. Most information that contradicts him is removed from standard search engines on the net and he keeps his religious ideologies close. Seriously - use any search engine to see if you can pull up dirt. Your best direct source is
shitharperdid.com He's an evangelical who believes in a heaven and hell, that homosexuality is a sin against god and while he won't state it publicly, is strictly pro life. He supports whatever measures the USA does in regards to foreign policy and feels strongly that Canada should be engaged in any effort the Americans are.
Taking all this information in, you might be inclined to wonder what does it matter. So what. So they're all religious and family oriented. It took me a long time to get here but essentially, these are my thoughts: State and religion are not separate and we continue to wage war on anyone or anything that doesn't share good Christian values. We can spew rhetoric all we want about how if we don't get them (Muslims or such) that they will certainly get us. We can use scare tactics and frighten the hearts of a nation with ideas about godless heathens coming to get us all. But this doesn't represent the whole of humanity.
Next year, the United States could have a new President. This president could represent the values of most Americans and Canadians. Stand strong in your religious belief, continue to fight the dwindling morality of a nation by targeting specific groups and declare war on any nation that isn't willing to accept the only true god and democracy into their hearts.
What makes this most terrifying isn't that the choices we make for our democratically elected leaders are based on religious ideologies - it's that they're based on lies. People are dying in these little wars for profit, decisions are made that affect peoples lives every day in North America for profit (health care, food and drug policies) and human beings are being locked up because it is simply more profitable than dealing with the realities of what creates a criminal or a drug addict. If the charity and love that is preached in faith ran as deep in government as it does in the electoral process...
At the end of the day, if he really exists, I wonder what Jesus would do?